Don't we all have them?
At least one bad relationship somewhere in our past?
If you have never had one, you are without a doubt
and very lucky.
It doesn't happen too often.
I have found that it is just something we all have to go through.
Whether it happens at 20 or 40, we almost certainly will go through a bad relationship.
It just happens.
It is like a rite of passage.
Just think of everyone you know and think about their relationships.
You know I am right.
In the older generations when people got married young and stayed married, things were maybe a little different.
But, I bet not a lot.
Some people back in the day just put up with more bad and it was just OK.
Some bad relationships just kept on going.
But today, you see more people having more relationships and not accepting the bad.
But in everything bad, out can come some good.
What good can come out of a bad relationship?
You learn what you want in a partner.
You learn what you don't want in a partner.
You learn what you might need to work on about yourself.
You learn who you really are.
And really isn't that part of growing up?
And no matter your age, you can always learn something.