I am sure that this post may make somebody mad.
But, ya know.
I don't care.
I called someone a turd.
To be precise- I called someone's boyfriend a turd.
I could have said worse.
I care about this person a lot.
I don't know if she ever reads this, but some people she knows do so she may or may not see this.
I was raised in a somewhat dysfunctional family.
Weren't we all?
Mine didn't involve drinking, beating, or incest.
But part of it did involve never mentioning the monkey in the middle of the room flinging poo everywhere.
Since that time, I have learned that a great many people also don't want to hear bad things about people they are currently dating.
Most of the time, I don't say a word.
Or try not to.
I have lost a friendship by saying something about the boyfriend hitting on me.
How messed up is that?
Be honest and see where it gets ya.
Anyway, I never met this particular boyfriend.
But, I don't like the things I have heard.
I believe he can be nice.
But, he screwed some other chick and I am not going to just be OK with that.
There are other things that tells me he is selfish, but that's the big one.
I will support her, but that doesn't mean I am going to ever like the guy.
She knows I think she needs to leave.
I just don't understand why anyone would stay.
She has her whole life ahead of her and he is just not worthy.
So, I am apparently getting the silent treatment.
So, OK I'm sorry.
I'm sorry your boyfriend's a turd.